Food Waste Friday – 5.18.12

Food Waste Friday keeps me responsible & accountable for my family’s food & finances…thanks to The Frugal Girl!

Let’s file this one under “I don’t care”/”Good riddance.”

Two weeks ago I mentioned we were doing a cleanse, of which a major component was juicing.  Vegetable juicing.  Cabbage, carrots, beets, broccoli, kale, spinach, celery…you name it.  We were on Day 4 before we were allowed to put 1/2 an apple in our juice.  Seriously, that was the best day.

Anyway, we made it through a week and a half before we let up on the juicing.  These have been sitting in my fridge.  They are just a tiny percentage of the produce we went through during our program, and I am happy to see them go.

This weekend’s activity will be to clean my fridge to rid it of the rogue produce debris (and smell) and I could not be more excited about it!


Food Waste Friday – 5.11.12

Food Waste Friday keeps me responsible & accountable for my family’s food & finances…thanks to The Frugal Girl!

Oh, vegetables.  I’m ready to cry uncle.  Not awful this week, but I fear there is a ticking time bomb of produce in my fridge.

Here is a free cooking lesson.  If you are making hard-boiled eggs and happen to see one more egg in the fridge that was apparently hiding when you were gathering up his friends, if you try to toss him into the pot mid-boil the temperature difference is apparently too much and you will kill him.  Oops.

 


Food Waste Friday – 5.4.12

Food Waste Friday keeps me responsible & accountable for my family’s food & finances…thanks to The Frugal Girl!

WHAT?  I have a blog?  Apparently so!

I wish I could tell you what I’ve been up to the past month and a half but…well, I have no idea.  Life, I guess.  No excuses.

But here we go again!  Today I combed through my fridge and here’s what I found.

blue cheese, cilantro lime dressing, veggie dip, and frozen strawberries

Let me give you a little bit of background.  On Monday Rusty & I began a 2-week…I don’t know…”cleanse,” for lack of a better word.  We’re re-setting our pallates by avoiding carbs, sugar, and salt for 2 weeks.  So this means we eat (unseasoned) meat and vegetables day in and day out.  It’s not so terrible, though I would have told you differently on Tuesday.

Anyway, these are the things that wouldn’t be good anymore after 2 weeks, that we couldn’t feed Conlan, or may have already gone bad.  I would like to (proudly) note that there isn’t any produce that’s gone bad.  I’ve mentioned our produce pile before, but with this eating plan we’ve turned it into a huge produce mountain.  And so far, we’ve eaten it all and nothing has gone to waste.  Tune in next Friday to see if we get through another week!

[Edit:  While I was prepping all of tomorrow's food this evening I found half of a moldy beet in the fridge.  But since I have pretty strong negative feelings about beets, we're going to call that little happy surprise a food waste win.]


Party Time!

Conlan had a birthday!  Since it was the first one he actually had a clue about, we wanted it to be fun for him – and we sure had fun celebrating, too!

We tossed around a few fun {and more elaborate} ideas, but then decided on throwing the party ourselves this year.  We’ll probably outsource it next year, but this year was pretty easy because when you’re this age, everything ends in an exclamation point.  “Look!  There’s Mickey Mouse!” and “Look!  A bug!” elicit the exact same enthusiastic response.

So we decided on a SuperWHY! theme since that’s Conlans favorite TV show.  I’m putting the party plan here on my blog because I get a surprising amount of search engine traffic, and I know there are other moms out there planning a similarly themed one for their kiddo.  Since SuperWHY! character merchandise is not as readily available at your local party supply store as, say, Toy Story or Justin Bieber {you think I’m kidding, don’t you?}, here’s how we pulled it together.

Invitations:  Designed in MS Word and printed on cardstock we already had around the house.  FREE.

Decorations:  Streamers, balloons, plates, and napkins in solid blue, green, and white.  I also bought an action figure online (but not without a quick stop at retailmenot to grab a coupon)!

Cake:  I had initally planned to have the kids decorate their own cupcakes, but then realized what an absolute mess that could turn into.  Instead, we did super-letter cupcakes.  Rusty gets all the credit for that idea.

Activities:  We read some SuperWHY! books from the library and hid super-letters around the house – after we found them all they spelled “Happy Birthday Conlan.”  We also did a craft and made super spelling wands which, yes, is a little girly but three-year olds don’t care.  Some of the boys put footballs at the top of their wands, so, at least there was a masculine option.  :)

Favors:  Balloons did double-duty as decorations and favors, kids took their wand home that they had made, and everyone also got a superhero cape. 

Which brings me to my superhero cape tutorial.  I don’t sew.  And when I did a search for “no-sew superhero cape” I must admit I wasn’t thrilled with the options.  So for anyone else who happened upon this, I hope this works for you!  It’s not sewn, it’s not lined, and it’s definitely not perfect – which isn’t a problem because it would seem that preschoolers don’t care about sewing, lining, or perfection.  Awesome.

I used satin material and stitch witchery.  I don’t really iron, either, but I can fake it better than sewing.  For the dimensions I found that using a full yard of material was way too long for kids this age.  I was able to fit 2 capes on 1 1/2 yards of fabric.  I also used adhesive, heat-bonded velcro because, again, it’s a NO-SEW cape.  :)

I just heat-bonded all the edges per the stitch witchery directions and attached the velcro.  It took a bit of time (I’m sure if I knew how to sew, it would have been much faster) but was a pretty mindless activity to do while I was watching TV or something.

Here are the materials and dimensions I used:

  • 3/4 yd. satin
  • stitch witchery
  • adhesive, heat-bonded velcro

Happy cape-making for your own little superhero!


Debt Free Friday!

I have sat here for the last 10 minutes wondering how in the world to begin this post.  I’ve been looking forward to it for so long but now…nothing.  How does one begin a blog post with stunned silence followed by a huge sigh of relief?

We’re DONE!

For the past 13 1/2 months we’ve been attacking our debt.  We got inspired when my friend Jenny (Hi, Jenny!) got to call in to the Dave Ramsey Show for her family’s debt-free scream.  Financial freedom sounded pretty darn appealing, so we got on the wait list for his book at the library, and shortly thereafter began our own Total Money Makeover.

These 13 1/2 months have passed incredibly fast yet painfully slow.  The process was a lesson in hard discipline, sacrifice, and commitment – but also surprisingly easy.  And it was full of God’s grace and blessings.

I lieu of screaming on the radio, I’m blogging our story today.  We paid off a total of $36,968.  Here’s the breakdown:

  • Credit Card:  $1,200
  • Undergrad Student Loan:  $7,180
  • Grad School Loan:  $10,433
  • Car Loan:  $18,155

We won’t disclose our full income here, but it is more than enough.  We are thankful that we are very blessed, but let me be clear – we do not have an income that regularly gives us a surplus pushing $40K a year.  We turned off our cable TV, cell phone data plans, and saw one movie in a theater this past year.  I can count the number of times we ate out on one hand.  I won’t say that we never spent a single discretionary dollar over the past year, but we certainly didn’t spend mindlessly or unintentionally.  We worked at it.  Hard.

Still, to accomplish this goal in this amount of time feels like nothing short of a miracle.

Which is funny, actually, because we prayed for a miracle.  We were never in trouble.  We were never reckless or lived beyond our means.  We saved money.  We just didn’t see how we could ever achieve financial security.

So God answered our prayers and gave us a miracle.  And the most miraculous part of the miracle is that He did it without changing a dime of our income.  I had budgets and spreadsheets and projections and…it didn’t matter what those things said.  Once we started exercising more financial wisdom, He blessed us unexpectedly – and worked impossible miracles with what we already had!  I have lots of examples of all the little miracles that added up to this one big miracle, but I’ll spare you for now.  The bottom line is that there was nothing radical that happened in our lives other than discipline.

By far the biggest miracle was not in our money, but in us, in our family, and in our contentment.  It can be so discouraging to watch our house value fall and feel stuck in a teeny home.  It is frustrating to read articles about strategic defaults or think about the house we could afford if only we didn’t have this one.  But instead we have learned gratefulness and contentment in what we have been given, trusting that God has us where He wants us right now.  We won’t compromise our integrity or try to creatively (foolishly!) squeeze ourselves into a blessing that He hasn’t seen fit to give us yet.  We’d be lying if we said we didn’t want a larger home, but we’d also be lying if we said we weren’t happy and content in the one we’ve been given.

And so, we rejoice!  We celebrate that we are off the living-expenses-go-on-the-credit-card-and-get-paid-off-every-month-so-we-can-get-points treadmill.  It’s ironic.  I’m not a fan of the treadmill, but we did get a pretty sweet bathroom scale with our points once.  I digress.

I am relieved that I finally own my education.  I got a chuckle out of the payoff letter they sent me:  “…[We] hope your educational experience has been a good one.”  Why yes, it certainly was.  ELEVEN YEARS AGO.  Thank you for your concern.

I love that my car has been paid off 3 1/2 years early.

And I love that I’m not throwing money away in interest.

For those of you not familiar with Dave Ramsey’s plan, this declaration of debt freedom does not include our mortgage.  We still have that, and sometimes it takes my breath away to think of the mountains still ahead.  Then I remember the impossibly high mountain that only took a year to climb, and I remember that miracles do happen.  Over the last year we paid off $37K in debt, have been paying cash for Rusty to take college classes, and found an incomprehensible peace and contentment.  So we will begin our ascent up the next mountain, trusting that if we persevere with all that we have, God will carry us the rest of the way.

Proverbs 22:7 says, “The rich rule over the poor, and the borrower is slave to the lender.”  Following their payment plan we would have been indebted until 2022.  Slaves no more, today we celebrate our freedom.

WE’RE DEBT FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!


Food Waste Friday – 3.16.12

Food Waste Friday keeps me responsible & accountable for my family’s food & finances…thanks to The Frugal Girl!

Not terrible this week!  I did have a bit of baked spaghetti casserole that I threw away, but I’m not crying over it.  Last week, due to 1) trying a new spaghetti recipe that was gross but I ate anyway because I can’t bear to throw food away, 2) stupidly cooking an entire box of spaghetti noodles for said recipe and thus having a plethora of noodles I was trying to creatively use up all week, and 3) having this leftover casserole from a group dinner, I am spaghetti-ed out.  No joke.  I ate spaghetti in some form every. single. night. last week.  If this was all that went to waste, I consider myself pretty successful.

Good Riddance!

I also had 2 unfrosted cupcakes I had thrown in the freezer that I didn’t need for last week’s cake pops, and since I was enthusiastically getting rid of stuff today they got evicted, too.


Life Without Regret

It’s not a new concept, but most of the time is considered within the context of adventurous, momentous, or grand events.  Think skydiving, world travel, career changes, or choosing to quit work to stay home with your child.

I’ve decided to live without regret in the little things.  I don’t know exactly what that looks like all the time, but when I find myself in a moment of small, seemingly insignificant decision, I ask myself “what will I regret?”

I will tell you the things I will never regret.  Patience with my child, kindness to my husband, and generosity to others.

It’s not easy finding grace when you’re worn out at the end of the day.  And I’d be dishonest if I said I was eager to hop off the couch when my son calls out to me during the last 10 minutes of Law & Order.  But I know which one I’ll regret – and it’s not missing the end of my TV crime drama.

Just the other night, after what felt like an exceptionally long day, the house was quiet.  Conlan was tucked in, Rusty was in school, and the evening was mine.

Then, as predictable as it is every night, my son calls out “Mommy!  You need to snuggle me!”  Never mind that we already snuggle during his regular bedtime and story routine.  Round 2 has become part of the routine now.  If you read the books, though, you’re not supposed to go back in there.

“Mommy!  You need to snuggle me!  Pwease?”  A little more urgent this time.  I drag myself off the couch because I know without a doubt I will never regret trading “me” time for snuggle time with my little boy.

I creep into his room and lay down next to him.  He turns over and scoots in close so we are nose-to-nose, and in the glow of the night light I see his eyes wide open, nowhere near sleep, and a full-faced grin.  I close my eyes and snuggle closer, stroking his hair to help him fall asleep.  [I won't regret this.]

“Mommy,” he whispers.  “I wanna snuggle more.”  And so we lay there a few more minutes until I decide it’s time to quietly slip out of the room.  [I won't regret this.]

I try to get up and find I’m stuck.  Deep, belly-busting giggles erupt from my snuggle buddy.  My 3-year-old has me in a headlock,  and has been waiting patiently for me to realize he has trapped me.  I laugh at his laughter.  We giggle and laugh and snuggle and giggle and give goodnight kisses and I leave. [I won't regret this.]

I could have missed that moment, that memory, but I didn’t - and I won’t regret it.


Food Waste Friday – 3.9.12

Food Waste Friday keeps me responsible & accountable for my family’s food & finances…thanks to The Frugal Girl!

We had much less waste than I expected.  Conlan turned 3 this week so I thought we would have a bazillion cupcakes go to waste.  Turns out we ate them all throughout the week and didn’t have any go to waste.  Win?

When I was making the cupcakes it turns out the batter went further than I expected.  I had enough “leftover” batter to bake a round cake, which I froze (along with the leftover frosting) until later in the week.  Then I defrosted everything and Conlan & I made cake pops to take along to daycare!  They were my first attempt – and I was assisted by a VERY enthusiastic little boy – so they are far from perfect, but they sure were a fun weeknight project!  The were also a great way to use up extra cake & icing.

I found some apple slices in the fridge that needed to disappear, and it would appear we didn’t go through as many sandwiches as I expected us to.  It’s a little more painful when it’s homemade.


Surviving Dinner – Roasted Potatoes & Sausage

Lots of recipes claim they can be cooked in 20 minutes or less.  Some nights are so busy, even that’s too long.  “Surviving Dinner” is a series that is not about good wifeing, mothering, or cooking.  It’s about surviving.  It’s for those nights when you’re tempted to write “fast food” on the menu, but cooking at home will save you a few dollars, a few hundred calories, and loads of mommy-guilt.  Recipes found here can be cooked quickly and have minimal prep and clean-up.  Some may require a little pre-planning, but many won’t.

 

Don’t you love it when you throw something together out of desperation and you suddenly discover a new weeknight staple?  We’ve had this once a week for at least the last month or so, after I bought a big bag of potatoes and wanted to use them up before they went bad.  The prep is lightning fast.  The cook time is 45 minutes, but you can spend quality time with your family or get a jump-start on your chores while it bakes!  If you want to make this dinner a bit more virtuous, you could always throw in a veggie like onion or broccoli or something.  This is totally customizable, and a great way to use up stuff in the fridge!

Survival Menu:

  • Roasted potatoes & sausage

Ingredients:

  • 5 medium red potatoes, or 3 large russet potatoes – cut into 1/2 to 1 inch pieces
  • pre-browned sausage, sliced kielbasa, or any meat you feel like eating
  • cheddar cheese
  • olive oil
  • garlic powder
  • cajun seasoning, seasoned salt, or other quick flavoring

1.  Preaheat oven to 425.

2.  Toss together potatoes, oil, garlic powder, and your chosen seasoning.  Throw in sausage.  Transfer to a baking dish, sprayed with cooking spray.

3.  Bake for 20 minutes.  Stir.  Bake for an additional 20 minutes.

4.  Top with cheese and bake for 5 additional minutes, until cheese is melted.

Wondering what I’m doing here?  Learn more about the idea behind Surviving Dinner.


Food Waste Friday – 3.2.12

Food Waste Friday keeps me responsible & accountable for my family’s food & finances…thanks to The Frugal Girl!

I forgot about a cucumber from a few weeks ago. 

I found a bad apple in the fruit bowl.  That one’s totally not my fault.  We go through a very predictable 10 per week, and this one was just purchased last weekend along with the rest of the bunch.  Bummer.

Then I grabbed the cabbage to throw some in my stir-fry tonight and discovered it was bad now, too.  Bummer #2.

This week I had one [rather sneaky] save.  Last weekend I was making our yogurt for the month and got a little over confident.  I did other chores while waiting for the milk to heat up and ended up scorching the bottom, but aside from a slightly altered flavor everything else was just fine.  Not one to throw a gallon of milk down the drain, I finished the yogurt and declared that it was a “toasted marshmallow flavor.”  Apparently, that was a sufficient enough explanation to make the yogurt disappear from my fridge at the expected rate.  :)


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